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Stop Bugging Me!

by Debbie on May 30, 2011

If you are like me, you have days when certain things or certain people just really bug you. Those can be very stressful days and many times that is when relationships get messy. The term "stop bugging me" comes to my mind, because so many times I would like to just exclaim to certain people, "stop bugging me". I don't remember ever doing that and I am sure that it would not have helped the matter if I had of expressed myself in that manner. Unfortunately, people do bug each other from time to time and it is something that we have to learn to deal with. The best way to deal with those days is by praying instead of saying! What do I mean? When we want to get rid of these "bugs" in our lives, we need to ask God to handle the situation instead of handling it in anger towards the person or situation. God is in control and has allowed this situation or person to "bug" you. Most likely he has a purpose in it. A few years ago, I found out that purpose. Let me explain....

Several years ago a dear friend of mine invited me to a Christian Women's retreat. We were both excited about it and looked forward to spending some time together. When we arrived at the retreat center we choose a room and placed our luggage and other belongings in the room. It was a smaller room and we secretly had hopes that we would get to have it to ourselves. We then left the room and helped with some preparations for the weekend. Later that evening when we returned to our room, we found that someone else had placed their belongings in the room. We were not sure who it was yet, but to our dismay, we found that our room was now being covered with bugs. Little tiny bugs, medium size bugs, bigger bugs! Bugs, bugs, bugs, that were going everywhere. We were both horrified and did not know how to handle the situation. You see, the lady who had placed her luggage in our room, had no idea that bugs were coming from her luggage. Neither of us could imagine sleeping in that room or leaving our belongings in that room for much longer. We knew we had to move and move quickly. Fortunate for me, my friend had to handle the situation because she knew the lady. I don't know exactly how she handled it but I was instructed to quickly get my belongings out. By now all the rooms had pretty much been taken, however there was a bigger room away from everyone else in a newer section of the retreat that we were allowed to use. It was much nicer than the place we had before. It was a horrifying experience but it all turned out for the best for us. We were placed with a very Godly woman who loved the Lord and we all enjoyed our time together even though we were away from the central point of activities. We had our own private bathrooms and the place was much cleaner and fresher. What looked like a real disaster became a wonderful blessing.

Later on, I had time to walk on the beach alone and I asked God, why he let that happen. I felt so badly for the woman who had the bugs in her luggage. I know she wanted to have fellowship with other women too but no one wanted to be "bugged" by her. It was so sad. I just prayed for her and God began to show me that HE was the one "bugging" us. I asked him why he was bugging us and eventually I knew the answer. God sometimes bugs us to get us to move to a better place in our lives. Sometimes we settle somewhere and we think that is the best place for us when God wants something better for us. Every time I see a bug now, I remember when God bugged us. I am so glad that he did. It was so hard to move our things and hurt that ladies feelings but we knew we had to move and move quickly. When I see a bug now, I always ask God to show me where he wants to move me to and how I need to obey him to get there.

I believe now that God does bug us sometimes and it is always to get us to a better place. But our response to his bugging is up to us. There is a place in the bible where God bugged someone to try to move them to a better place. Let's take a few minutes to read about it.

Exodus 8:16-19

The Plague of Gnats

Then the LORD said to Moses, "Tell Aaron, 'Stretch out your staff and strike the dust of the ground, and throughout the land of Egypt the dust will become gnats. They did this, and when Aaron stretched out his hand with the staff and struck the dust of the ground, gnats came upon men and animals. All the dust throughout the land of Egypt became gnats. But when the magicians tried to produce gnats by their secret arts, they could not. And the gnats were on men and animals. The magicians said to Pharaoh, "This is the finger of God." But Pharaoh's heart was hard and he would not listen, just as the LORD had said.

Exodus 8:20-32

The Plague of the Flies
Then the LORD said to Moses, "Get up early in the morning and confront Pharaoh as he goes to the water and say to him, "This is what the LORD says: Let my people go, so that they may worship me. If you do not let my people go, I will send swarms of flies on you and your officials, on your people and into your houses. The houses of the Egyptians will be full of flies, and even the ground where they are.

"But on that day I will deal differently with the land of Gosen, where my people live; no swarms of flies will be there, so that you will know that I, the LORD, am in this land. I will make a distinction between my people and your people. This miraculous sign will occur tomorrow."

And the LORD did this. Dense swarms of flies poured into Pharaoh's palace and into the houses of his officials and throughout Egypt the land was ruined by the flies.

Then Pharaoh summoned Moses and Aaron and said, "Go, sacrifice to your God here in the land." But Moses
said, "that would not be right. The sacrifices we offer the LORD our God would be detestable to the Egyptians. And if we offer sacrifices that are detestable in their eyes, will they not stone us? We must take a three-day journey into the desert to offer sacrifices to the LORD our God, as he commands us."

Pharaoh said, "I will let you go to offer sacrifices to the LORD your God in the desert, but you must not go very far. Now pray for me."

Moses answered, "As soon as I leave you, I will pray to the LORD, and tomorrow the flies will leave Pharaoh and his officials and his people. Only be sure that Pharaoh does not act deceitfully again by not letting the people go to offer sacrifices to the LORD."

Then Moses left Pharaoh and prayed to the LORD, and the LORD did what Moses asked: The flies left Pharaoh and his officials and his people; not a fly remained. But this time also Pharaoh hardened his heart and would not let the people go.

The Plague of Locusts
Exodus 10:1-20

The the LORD said to Moses, "Go to Pharaoh, for I have hardened his heart and the hearts of his officials so that I may perform these miraculous signs of mine among them that you may tell your children and grandchildren how I dealt harshly with the Egyptians and how I performed my signs among them, and that you may know that I am the LORD."

So Moses and Aaron went to Pharaoh and said to him, "This is what the LORD, the God of the Hebrews, says: 'How long will you refuse to let them go, I will bring locust into your country tomorrow. They will cover the face of the ground so that it cannot be seen. They will devour what little you have left after the hail, including every tree that is growing in your fields. They will fill your houses and those of all your officials and all the Egyptians-something neither your fathers nor your forefathers have ever seen from the day they settled in this land till now." Then Moses turned and left Pharaoh.

Pharaoh's officials said to him, "How long will this man be a snare to us? Let the people go, so that they may worship the LORD their God. Do you not yet realize that Egypt is ruined?"

Then Moses and Aaron were brought back to Pharaoh. "Go, worship the LORD your God," he said. "But just who will be going?"

Moses answered, "We will go with our young and old, with our sons and daughters, and with our flocks and herds, because we are to celebrate a festival to the LORD."

Pharaoh said, "The LORD be with you-if I let you go, along with your women and children! Clearly you are bent on evil. No! Have only the men go; and worship the LORD, since that's what you have been asking for." Then Moses and Aaron were driven out of Pharaoh's presence.

And the Lord said to Moses, "Stretch out your hand over Egypt so that locusts will swarm over the land and devour everything growing in the fields, everything left by the hail."

So Moses stretched out his staff over Egypt, and the LORD made an east wind blow across the land all that day and all that night. By morning the wind had brought the locusts; they invaded all Egypt and settled down in every area of the country in great numbers. Never before had there been such a plaque of locusts, nor will there ever be again. They covered all the ground until is was black. They devoured all that was left of after the hail-everything growing in the fields and the fruit trees. Nothing green remained on tree or plant in all the land of Egypt.

Pharaoh quickly summoned Moses and Aaron and said, "I have sinned against the LORD your God and against you. Now forgive my sin once more and pray to the LORD your God to take this deadly plague away from me."

Moses then left Pharaoh and prayed to the LORD. And the LORD changed the wind to a very strong west wind, which caught up the locusts and carried them in the Red Sea. Not a locust was left anywhere in Egypt. But the LORD hardened Pharaoh's heart, and he would not let the Israelites go.
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I know that was a lot of scripture reading, however, we needed to see that God does bug people. Exodus 8:24 clearly says, 'And the LORD did this. Why was the LORD bugging Pharaoh? He was trying to rescue his people from slavery in Egypt. He wanted his people to be free to worship him and serve him. He wanted them to be in a better place. A place where they would no longer be in bondage. What do you suppose he was doing in Pharaoh's heart? I think he was giving him a chance to be obedient. Unfortunately, Pharaoh did not fear God. He continued to disobey God. He cared more about his own selfish desires than God's desires. Each time he disobeyed God his heart became harder.

Is there something that God is bugging you to do? Have you been ignoring him, avoiding him, disobeying him? It appears that the bugging may not stop until you do what he has asked you to do. He is trying to move you to a better place. Is someone bugging you? Moses and Aaron kept bugging Pharaoh but really it was God bugging Pharaoh. Please know that people who bug you most likely are there for a godly reason. Pay attention and ask God if he is working through this "buggy" person to move you in some way. It might be a painful thing to obey God but I can assure you he will move you to a better place. Don't wait to obey God. Find out why he is bugging you and do whatever he asks you to do. You don't want to be like Pharaoh and end up with a hardened heart. Disobedience to God and his Word causes our hearts to harden. Pharaoh's heart became so hardened that it caused him to drown in the Red Sea. Don't let disobedience to God cause you to drown in sin, tragedy and sorrow. Now is the time to seek the Lord for his guidance. Now get moving and do it quickly!

Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for bugging us! Please don't stop bugging us, until we obey you. Help us not to be like Pharaoh and continue in disobedience until our hearts are so hardened that we drown in sin and sorrow. Give us the courage and desire to move in obedience and do it quickly. Help us not to think about our selfish desires and worry about our future. Help us to know that when we listen and obey we will definitely be blessed. Bless us today with obedient hearts and move us to the places that you want us to be, bigger and better places. We choose to obey, now stop bugging us! In Jesus name, Amen!

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Trust God With Your Eggs

by Debbie on May 7, 2011

Note: This little story was written when my son was in elementary school. He will be 21 in a few days. In honor of Mother's Day I have chosen to post this as a reminder to all mothers to remember to take time to do the little things that matter the most with your children, and remember also, that when we don't always get it right, God is willing to help us out and make our messes beautiful. Happy Mother's Day everyone!

Psalms 143:8a-Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you.
Matthew 19:26-...But with God everything is possible.
Romans 8:28-And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God
and are called according to his purpose for them.

Rush, rush, rush! Lately life had been like a whirlwind for Debbie. So many things to do and so little time. Shopping for groceries, one particular night was one of those times. It was getting late in the evening and Debbie wanted to be home and have her groceries put away before her husband Mike and son Blake returned home from baseball practice.

While going over the list in her mind, she was putting bread, milk, eggs,...one by one into her shopping cart. Hoping she had everything she needed, she checked out and returned home before her family did. She gathered the groceries from the car and put them on the kitchen counter and began putting them away. Suddenly, Debbie heard bags starting to slide off the counter and crash onto the floor. She looked down to see the bag containing her carton of eggs, on the floor. Her first response was "Oh, no!", and then suddenly she blurted out, "God, I trust you with my eggs!". As she picked up the carton of eggs, she quickly placed them over her kitchen sink. Did Debbie really trust God with her eggs? The carton was already dripping and she began to be angry with God and also with herself. If she really trusted God, would she have opened the container over the sink? Feeling discouraged with God and with herself for having doubts, she was wondering why God let this happen to her eggs and why she said she trusted God, when obviously she had her doubts.

As Debbie silently talked to God about how she needed those eggs, how she had just bought them, and about her household budget, the thought came to her mind to try and save the cracked eggs. There were a dozen eggs-seven that were cracked and five that survived the crash. She gently poured the cracked eggs into a bowl, and rinsed the other five and placed them in the refrigerator, with doubtful hope of using the cracked eggs before they spoiled. When retiring to bed later, she never gave the eggs a second thought.

Debbie usually got up around 5 A.M. to spend time with God in prayer and to study his Word, however, she was awakened the next morning at 4 A.M. by her cat's meow. She decided to rise and shine. After her quiet time, she realized she still had some time to spare before getting ready for work. She still needed to pack a lunch for her son. As she opened the refrigerator door, she saw the cracked eggs. Suddenly she had a great idea! She would cook a big breakfast for her family!

( Psalms 143:8a-Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you.)

For weeks her son Blake, had continuously asked her to cook him a big breakfast before going to school and her reply was always, "I don't have enough time, I'll do it on the weekend." However, the weekends came and were so full of sports and church activities, so that seemed impossible too.

(Matthew 19:26-...But with God everything is possible.)

Suddenly, Debbie realized that God had cracked those eggs! Soon the aroma of eggs, sausage, and biscuits had the family pouring into the kitchen. Smiles and thank you's were abundant that morning. God had been faithful with Debbie's eggs-He knew he would have to crack her eggs to get her to take time to prepare that long requested 'big breakfast'.

(Romans 8:28-And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God
and are called according to his purpose for them.)

God is so faithful, even with the most fragile things in our lives. Tell God today, that you trust him with your eggs!

For further thought: Are there some 'messy' things going on in your life right now, that you are not trusting God to work together for the good? Are you willing to tell God that you trust him with those things today and watch as he works in your life to make them beautiful? Are you trusting God with your children? Are you trusting God with your marriage? Are you trusting God with your health? Are you trusting God with your job or your finances? Are you trusting God with your future? Ask God to show you any areas that you are not trusting Him in today. Ask Him to help you trust Him. He is ready, willing and able to help you! He is faithful!

Dear heavenly Father,
Thank you so much for making something beautiful out of my messy egg situation. I have watched you over the years work so many things out for the good in my life. Please help those who are struggling to trust you today with the messes in their lives. Use this story to strengthen their faith and help them to know that with you all things are possible and that you are able and willing to make something beautiful out of the messes in their lives too. Thank you for our children who trust us so much. Help us not to disappoint them. Help us to be the Mom's that we need to be. Mom's that trust you and know that with you all things are possible and will work out for our good. We love you Father and we thank you for blessing us even when we have our doubts. In Jesus name, Amen.

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